Since I've shared about my mother, it's only fair that I should share about my father. Or at least share the things that, for most of my life, have gone unsaid and unshared about him. Instead of writing about everything that he isn't, I want to share about everything that he is. He will be … Continue reading A Letter to My Father That Will Go Unread…
Category: Progress
Grief Isn’t Linear
That's the lesson I'm learning. What does survival mean to me? Work, have something to eat, respond to people & be surprised when you get some unexpected laughs out of it. Going about your day as if everything is normal is my method for survival. When people speak of their woes you care, but you … Continue reading Grief Isn’t Linear
Life happens.
Are you one of those people who makes life happen or who allows life to happen to you? If you're not sure about that, make sure to try to be someone that makes life happen. I've always thought I was strong, but the one thing I learned about myself within the past 4 years is that … Continue reading Life happens.
It’s okay
It's not all about past heartbreaks and coping. Sometimes it's just about living life the way it works for you or at least one that motivates you just enough to get up and go. I should point out that even if nostalgia comes and goes that there's a day where you'll get over it and where … Continue reading It’s okay
Oh, Reality
Where was I? Oh, yeah.. the path to my 1st heartbreak. You know, I've just realized that I've never really let out the whole story to anyone, mostly because when my heart was broken I got a lot of "Oh, Haydee, I knew this would happen." and "What did you do's?" so letting it out … Continue reading Oh, Reality
My Lifestate 